Comments on: Silly http://blog.blowfish.com/culture/silly/248 Sponsored by Blowfish: Good Products for Great Sex. Fri, 29 Aug 2008 19:23:58 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.0.7 by: Wintermute http://blog.blowfish.com/culture/silly/248#comment-1114 Sun, 03 Jun 2007 22:23:06 +0000 http://blog.blowfish.com/culture/silly/248#comment-1114 Spankos (those fascinated or obsessed with spanking) are indeed the conservatives of the S&M world. Many of our scenes and fantasies revolve around classic power scenarios from childhood or adult life (boss/employee is a common theme). While some spankos may go for light bondage, the esthetics of leather and chains don't usually do it for spankos. And you're right, the two cultures, spanking and the leather side of S&M do tend to be separate. For spankos (which include both Bonnie and I), the spanking fixation is bright and focused. As you note, while others outside the kind may regard it as silly, it is not to us. It is the very core of our sexuality. Spankos (those fascinated or obsessed with spanking) are indeed the conservatives of the S&M
world. Many of our scenes and fantasies revolve around classic power scenarios from childhood
or adult life (boss/employee is a common theme). While some spankos may go for light bondage,
the esthetics of leather and chains don’t usually do it for spankos. And you’re right, the two cultures,
spanking and the leather side of S&M do tend to be separate.

For spankos (which include both Bonnie and I), the spanking fixation is bright and focused. As you
note, while others outside the kind may regard it as silly, it is not to us. It is the very core of our
sexuality.

]]> by: Bonnie http://blog.blowfish.com/culture/silly/248#comment-1083 Fri, 01 Jun 2007 23:00:26 +0000 http://blog.blowfish.com/culture/silly/248#comment-1083 Greta, I'll have you know that some of my best friends are dorks. In fact, so am I, and loving every sexy, silly, and stupendous swat! Thanks for a fun article. Greta,

I’ll have you know that some of my best friends are dorks. In fact, so am I, and loving every sexy, silly, and stupendous swat!

Thanks for a fun article.

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