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	<title>Comments on: [Greta Christina] 101 Positions That Won&#8217;t Spice Up Your Sex Life</title>
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		<title>by: jenergy</title>
		<link>http://blog.blowfish.com/culture/greta-christina-101-positions-that-wont-spice-up-your-sex-life/1199#comment-114197</link>
		<pubDate>Sat, 09 Jan 2010 17:39:41 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description>"And there’s virtually no recognition of the fact that, for most women, intercourse by itself isn’t enough to get them off."

THANK YOU, GRETA! i cannot explain w/ known words how sick i am of people using the word "sex" when what they actually mean is "intercourse." and how weary i am of "sex" scenes in which there is no visible stimulation of the woman's external genitalia. what do thses people think the clit is for??? i, for one, do not come from intercourse. i never have, and i know i never will. i am tired of what DOES get me off being marginalized as "foreplay," "afterplay," or "getting HER off." wtf? why should what makes me orgasm be considered anything less than sex? in fact, i don't consider intercourse-focused sex to really be sex at all. i consider it to be a penis-stabbing session w/ a clueless, insensitive, cock-obsessed jerk who will not be invited back into my bed.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>&#8220;And there’s virtually no recognition of the fact that, for most women, intercourse by itself isn’t enough to get them off.&#8221;</p>
<p>THANK YOU, GRETA! i cannot explain w/ known words how sick i am of people using the word &#8220;sex&#8221; when what they actually mean is &#8220;intercourse.&#8221; and how weary i am of &#8220;sex&#8221; scenes in which there is no visible stimulation of the woman&#8217;s external genitalia. what do thses people think the clit is for??? i, for one, do not come from intercourse. i never have, and i know i never will. i am tired of what DOES get me off being marginalized as &#8220;foreplay,&#8221; &#8220;afterplay,&#8221; or &#8220;getting HER off.&#8221; wtf? why should what makes me orgasm be considered anything less than sex? in fact, i don&#8217;t consider intercourse-focused sex to really be sex at all. i consider it to be a penis-stabbing session w/ a clueless, insensitive, cock-obsessed jerk who will not be invited back into my bed.
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		<title>by: Interesting posts, weekend of 11/22 &#171; Feminists with Female Sexual Dysfunction</title>
		<link>http://blog.blowfish.com/culture/greta-christina-101-positions-that-wont-spice-up-your-sex-life/1199#comment-101544</link>
		<pubDate>Sun, 22 Nov 2009 22:31:46 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description>[...] [Greta Christina] 101 Positions That Won’t Spice Up Your Sex Life &#8211; Greta Christina critiques typical sex advice books, including one by Marty Klein &#8211; he&#8217;s one of the authors who contributed to Let me Count the Ways, which I reviewed here! [...]</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>[&#8230;] [Greta Christina] 101 Positions That Won’t Spice Up Your Sex Life &#8211; Greta Christina critiques typical sex advice books, including one by Marty Klein &#8211; he&#8217;s one of the authors who contributed to Let me Count the Ways, which I reviewed here! [&#8230;]
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		<title>by: Heidi Anderson</title>
		<link>http://blog.blowfish.com/culture/greta-christina-101-positions-that-wont-spice-up-your-sex-life/1199#comment-99015</link>
		<pubDate>Tue, 10 Nov 2009 20:29:18 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description>I was just at a Porn festival, and it was full of hot butch dyke, gay puppies, transperson, anal, etc. Great, hot weekend!

Until the last film. The last film was a sex position movie with real couples. I am so glad that the audience was full of other perverts, because the movie was just not my thing at all. In fact, we rudely turned it into a Mystery Science Theater 3000 of porn, and started yelling things at the screen, like "Choke her!", "Slap him." "Strap something on and fuck him in the ass!"

Not only were the positions all versions of penis in vagina sex, but there was no direct clitoral stimulation. At all. None. Also no ass play. 

As I watched the movie, I realized that I may be married to a man, but I am as queer as a three dollar bill, and can not imagine anything else.

And that pretty people can not always fuck well.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I was just at a Porn festival, and it was full of hot butch dyke, gay puppies, transperson, anal, etc. Great, hot weekend!</p>
<p>Until the last film. The last film was a sex position movie with real couples. I am so glad that the audience was full of other perverts, because the movie was just not my thing at all. In fact, we rudely turned it into a Mystery Science Theater 3000 of porn, and started yelling things at the screen, like &#8220;Choke her!&#8221;, &#8220;Slap him.&#8221; &#8220;Strap something on and fuck him in the ass!&#8221;</p>
<p>Not only were the positions all versions of penis in vagina sex, but there was no direct clitoral stimulation. At all. None. Also no ass play. </p>
<p>As I watched the movie, I realized that I may be married to a man, but I am as queer as a three dollar bill, and can not imagine anything else.</p>
<p>And that pretty people can not always fuck well.
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		<title>by: Thivai Abhor</title>
		<link>http://blog.blowfish.com/culture/greta-christina-101-positions-that-wont-spice-up-your-sex-life/1199#comment-98680</link>
		<pubDate>Sat, 07 Nov 2009 21:16:31 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description>Thank you for this essay, my lover pointed it out to me and we are believers in this line of thought... while sexual variety is important, nothing can compare to the arousal, excitement and pleasure we get from passionate communication of our thoughts, fantasies and desires. 

I also, earlier in my life, was in a toxic relation like Klein's patients and the miscommunication, anger and isolation (while a couple) made any sex, much less good, impossible.

I will definitely share this,

Solidarity</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Thank you for this essay, my lover pointed it out to me and we are believers in this line of thought&#8230; while sexual variety is important, nothing can compare to the arousal, excitement and pleasure we get from passionate communication of our thoughts, fantasies and desires. </p>
<p>I also, earlier in my life, was in a toxic relation like Klein&#8217;s patients and the miscommunication, anger and isolation (while a couple) made any sex, much less good, impossible.</p>
<p>I will definitely share this,</p>
<p>Solidarity
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		<title>by: Bonne Vie - Wholestyle on the Web: Week of 11/06/09</title>
		<link>http://blog.blowfish.com/culture/greta-christina-101-positions-that-wont-spice-up-your-sex-life/1199#comment-98599</link>
		<pubDate>Fri, 06 Nov 2009 21:32:43 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description>[...] The Blowfish Blog: 101 Sexual Positions that Won&#8217;t Spice up Your Sex Life [...]</description>
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		<title>by: jo</title>
		<link>http://blog.blowfish.com/culture/greta-christina-101-positions-that-wont-spice-up-your-sex-life/1199#comment-98455</link>
		<pubDate>Fri, 06 Nov 2009 04:16:22 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description>haha i love your sex position names</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>haha i love your sex position names
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