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Erotica is wonderful stuff. (You can read some great stories at Blowfish’s own free erotic online magazine, Fishnet.) But some of the hottest, most interesting, most original sex stories on the ‘net are non-fiction. There’s a wide variety of blogs by tops, bottoms, swingers, prostitutes, queers, polyamorous folks, polymorphous pansexuals, and assorted flavors of kinky. For today, we’ll focus on the blogs of submissives, who often write very insightful, thoughtful (and hot) entries; when you’re tied up or blindfolded or being used as a living footstool, you probably have a lot of time to think . . .

Journey Into Submission is the blog of Gray Lily, “thirty-something, polyamorous, bisexual, submissive, masochistic bottom with a thing for bondage and flogging.” Her writing is warm and often witty, and she has a charming tendency to get embarrassed about the very explicit things she sometimes writes. One entry — the one that led us to her blog — concerns butt plugs and ball gags and showcases her deft hand at writing about her scenes.

Sarah of Submissive Reflections writes beautifully about her day-to-day life as a submissive in the real world, which isn’t at all like something from The Story of O — except when it is. She’s a woman, and a wife, and a mother, and a submissive, and it takes a delicate balancing act to give all those elements of her life the attention they deserve. She has a lovely recent entry about the difficulty of ending a scene, and switching from being a sexual object into being an equal partner.

Married Man’s Fucktoy is the often rather intense journal of “a cruel owner and his obedient slave,” and it has the advantage of including frequent photos of toys and their uses. Said obedient slave posted an entry detailing the contents of their toybox, and then posted a follow-up with a list of various other nice and nasty implements, followed by a list of her fantasies, and it all makes for arousing and interesting reading. (And also, possibly, a shopping list.)

There are lots and lots and lots of other submissive blogs out there, and you can find several from the blogrolls of the sites above. Next week, we’ll look at the blogs of dominants. Until then, be good, and don’t misbehave.

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