Comments on: Couple’s Couch: Wetting the Bed with Pride http://blog.blowfish.com/advice/couples-couch-wetting-the-bed-with-pride/415 Sponsored by Blowfish: Good Products for Great Sex. Mon, 08 Sep 2008 12:16:41 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.0.7 by: Jezebel VonTizzle http://blog.blowfish.com/advice/couples-couch-wetting-the-bed-with-pride/415#comment-3660 Wed, 03 Oct 2007 02:01:42 +0000 http://blog.blowfish.com/advice/couples-couch-wetting-the-bed-with-pride/415#comment-3660 I have always been a bit of a squirter and was (sometimes i am still) self conscious of it. it seemed abnormal to me and i just didnt know how or even if i should tell the guy before i had sex with him that things may be a little messy. I dated a guy briefly about 12 years ago that said "damn girl you come buckets!" in a not so "hey i love it" sort of way. it made me a little paranoid from then on. it wasnt until my recent boyfriend that i learned to love this part of me!!! he loves it and totally gets off on it himself. i do masturbate frequently, but it wasnt until about 4 months ago that i was able to make myself squirt. what an experiance!!!! but contrary to your article, i am only able to make this occur with clitoral stimulation and my trusty vibrator. i am still learning how to reach orgasm on my gspot by myself. havent been able to do that just yet. perhaps i need to hunker down and just work on it. I have always been a bit of a squirter and was (sometimes i am still) self conscious of it. it seemed abnormal to me and i just didnt know how or even if i should tell the guy before i had sex with him that things may be a little messy. I dated a guy briefly about 12 years ago that said “damn girl you come buckets!” in a not so “hey i love it” sort of way. it made me a little paranoid from then on. it wasnt until my recent boyfriend that i learned to love this part of me!!! he loves it and totally gets off on it himself.

i do masturbate frequently, but it wasnt until about 4 months ago that i was able to make myself squirt. what an experiance!!!! but contrary to your article, i am only able to make this occur with clitoral stimulation and my trusty vibrator.

i am still learning how to reach orgasm on my gspot by myself. havent been able to do that just yet. perhaps i need to hunker down and just work on it.

]]> by: Kitty DeMure http://blog.blowfish.com/advice/couples-couch-wetting-the-bed-with-pride/415#comment-3646 Mon, 01 Oct 2007 02:55:22 +0000 http://blog.blowfish.com/advice/couples-couch-wetting-the-bed-with-pride/415#comment-3646 Great post! In one of my human sexuality classes in college we watched a movie all about female ejaculation. There were only about 3-4 boys (I don't dare refer to them as men!) in the class, and when the woman ejaculated, there were eeks and ooohs coming from the boys in the back. They were disgusted by it then, but now that it's cool in porn, I'm sure those same boys will just love the thought of it. *sigh.* Great post! In one of my human sexuality classes in college we watched a movie all about female ejaculation. There were only about 3-4 boys (I don’t dare refer to them as men!) in the class, and when the woman ejaculated, there were eeks and ooohs coming from the boys in the back. They were disgusted by it then, but now that it’s cool in porn, I’m sure those same boys will just love the thought of it. *sigh.*

]]> by: Greta Christina http://blog.blowfish.com/advice/couples-couch-wetting-the-bed-with-pride/415#comment-3645 Sun, 30 Sep 2007 20:32:33 +0000 http://blog.blowfish.com/advice/couples-couch-wetting-the-bed-with-pride/415#comment-3645 Great piece! Just a couple of notes: a) G-spot stimulation isn't always necessary for ejaculation. I often ejaculate without any penetration of any kind; just with external stimulation on my clit. (My quick-and-dirty instructions for ejaculation: If you ever feel like you have to pee right when you're getting excited, and yet you know you don't really have to pee (i.e., if you peed recently)... that's it. That's a female ejaculation trying to happen. Just go with it. And it can happen with external stimulation as well as internal; I've even ejaculated just from having my nipples played with. (For me, it usually happens when I've been aroused and excited for a long time before I come; it rarely happens with quickies.) b) If you enjoy ejaculation (or want to try it), but don't like the rather daunting wet spot it can create, try either the very unsexily-named "incontinence pads" from medical supply houses, or the Fascinator Shag Throe Blanket (Blowfish carries it). Problem totally solved. (Towels do not do the trick: when I squirt, I squirt a lot, and it soaks right through the towel. The incontinence pads and the Throe Blankets are specifically deisgned for this purpose, and they work like a charm.) Great piece! Just a couple of notes:

a) G-spot stimulation isn’t always necessary for ejaculation. I often ejaculate without any penetration of any kind; just with external stimulation on my clit. (My quick-and-dirty instructions for ejaculation: If you ever feel like you have to pee right when you’re getting excited, and yet you know you don’t really have to pee (i.e., if you peed recently)… that’s it. That’s a female ejaculation trying to happen. Just go with it. And it can happen with external stimulation as well as internal; I’ve even ejaculated just from having my nipples played with. (For me, it usually happens when I’ve been aroused and excited for a long time before I come; it rarely happens with quickies.)

b) If you enjoy ejaculation (or want to try it), but don’t like the rather daunting wet spot it can create, try either the very unsexily-named “incontinence pads” from medical supply houses, or the Fascinator Shag Throe Blanket (Blowfish carries it). Problem totally solved. (Towels do not do the trick: when I squirt, I squirt a lot, and it soaks right through the towel. The incontinence pads and the Throe Blankets are specifically deisgned for this purpose, and they work like a charm.)

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