http://blog.blowfish.com/advice/couples-couch-the-f-word/403 Sponsored by Blowfish: Good Products for Great Sex. Thu, 18 Mar 2010 12:43:03 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.0.7 http://blog.blowfish.com/advice/couples-couch-the-f-word/403#comment-3635 Sat, 29 Sep 2007 00:27:11 +0000 http://blog.blowfish.com/advice/couples-couch-the-f-word/403#comment-3635 [...] Rebekah’s column in this blog on the F-word – frequency of sex, and couples negotiating same – reminded me of something I’ve been wanting to write about for a while. It’s one of the best pieces of sex advice I ever read, and I wanted to pass it along. [...] […] Rebekah’s column in this blog on the F-word – frequency of sex, and couples negotiating same – reminded me of something I’ve been wanting to write about for a while. It’s one of the best pieces of sex advice I ever read, and I wanted to pass it along. […]

]]> http://blog.blowfish.com/advice/couples-couch-the-f-word/403#comment-3633 Fri, 28 Sep 2007 05:08:28 +0000 http://blog.blowfish.com/advice/couples-couch-the-f-word/403#comment-3633 I know that i have been struggling with this topic for a while now. My current partner, when we first got together had very different sex drives than he does now (and for the past year). But every time i brought up the topic i felt like i was being shut down and he didn't want to talk about it. I found out that i am a night lover where he is a morning lover and that makes things complicated becuase due to our schedules, i get off of work late and he is tired and we get up early and don't have enough time for more than a quick cup of coffee. So i have a personal connection with patience, but that one not so kind let down a while back resonates in my head and reminds me that it hurts to bring up sensitive topics and it is hard and that you may have to bring things up several times for the message to really get across. Thanks B. I know that i have been struggling with this topic for a while now. My current partner, when we first got together had very different sex drives than he does now (and for the past year). But every time i brought up the topic i felt like i was being shut down and he didn’t want to talk about it. I found out that i am a night lover where he is a morning lover and that makes things complicated becuase due to our schedules, i get off of work late and he is tired and we get up early and don’t have enough time for more than a quick cup of coffee. So i have a personal connection with patience, but that one not so kind let down a while back resonates in my head and reminds me that it hurts to bring up sensitive topics and it is hard and that you may have to bring things up several times for the message to really get across. Thanks B.

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